So really, where to begin?
- jvanravensway
- Dec 7, 2025
- 2 min read
While I've made a couple of posts so far, mostly those were to test the waters and get my feet wet to this whole blog thing. But now that I think I've got the basic hang of it, where should I start? What should my first real post be about? Do I start at the beginning of when I met Katie? Do I post about random moments? Maybe its better to make posts relevant to the time of the year? I DON'T KNOW!!!! In reality it probably doesn't matter.
If I start from the beginning, then this first post would be about when I first met her in the summer of 21. (well, the story would actually start before that) But I think I'll save that story for another time. I've decided that my posts would not be in chronological order. Instead I'll make posts similar to how the Marvel movies were made and released. Makes perfect sense to me!
So, should this post be about something related to this time of year? Something about the holidays? This weekend my office held its Christmas Party, I could post about that! Or, I could make a post about The Phoenix Symphony and their holiday show, as I went yesterday. But no, I shall save that for another time. So... what to post?!
Ok, I've decided (drumroll please)... I've decided that this first post is really about nothing, other than how much I loved (and still love) this woman, and how much I miss her. Especially this time of year. For those who really know me, the holidays are my absolute most favorite time of year. We also got married over Christmas, so I miss here more than ever, which I didn't even think was possible. The past few holidays were incredible, by far the best ever. Its amazing how wonderful life can be when you can share those special times with the person and people you love.
Katie was my angel when we were together, and now she is literally my Angel looking over me, hopefully with me every where I go. I believe she is. And I believe she is with all of you who miss her so much.
I promise to always include photos with every post, so I've included a couple of random photos of the two of us. They are just being us, being together. We were one of those annoying couples that were content with just being together. It really didn't matter what we were doing, as long as we were together. And together there was nothing we couldn't handle. NOTHING. She was my rock, and I was hers. And together we were unbreakable. While her disease my have taken her body, it never took her spirit, her soul, or broke our connection. Not once. So, please enjoy a couple of random pictures of us, and this relatively long post about how much I love and miss my wife.


So, until my next post... hug your loved ones. Everyday.



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